05 December 2008

An ever-growing Party

Jason was in a herb kind of mood and after calling two trusted suppliers and getting no decent response; he called the one person we all can count on for such things. Peter is a true pothead through and through. I had a crush on him for some demented reason and things would have worked had it not been for obsession with marry J.

We got to Pet's house and Jason pointed out the house number while we waited for the door to be answered, 420, how appropriate. It was so perfect that to this day I think Pet's dad changed it on purpose.

Inside there was a party going on and a game of beer pong was under way and way to extended. To our surprise, we found a friend of Kevin's. You will have to stay tuned for the summer gap to get all the juicy details.

I met Mike at Kevin's AKA K birthday party over the summer. Mike had played the lead in "Bye, Bye Birdie." I saw him looking at us when we came in the door but could barely see him when he stood up Jason recognized him immediately. We hugged and started catching up. We had the whole how do you know so and so where you going what you doing later. And that's how two more people were on their way to Kevin's house for Jen's 21st birthday.

I had a beer then had Mike give Zack directions to Kevin's house I was all turned around after going to Pete's and I hadn't been since early august. So much confusing directions were discussed while I drank a beer and enjoyed how for once I was not the one driving.

A few turns her and few turns her and one u-turn later we were at Kevin's I was not sure how he was going to take to me just showing up after all I knew about the party but he did not extend an invitation. I was quite surprised to find people thrilled to see me. It was all, hey where have you been and what have you been up to's. I was MIA for quite some time.

I noticed that Zack, Jen's boyfriend was not present but felt It would be a bad idea to ask where he was. I made a drink and sat next to Tia. I leaned over and told her I saw the host naked and that he was thinner then. Once I felt my drink hit I said there we go and joined in on the electric slide. My tooth hurt so bad I could not really eat so I just drank. That was until I went outside and had a cigarette with everyone else. I even herd Kevin the guy who doesn't smoke smoked on to relax.

In the middle of talking to someone about Mac and cheese and after I had invited her over my house to have some Kevin grabs my hand and takes me up stairs. I though oh god what did I say or do. To my surprise, I was on my back and his lips were attached to mine. I was shocked and during short breaks, he told me he would stop if I wanted him to. That he was not trying to take advantage, that I really turned him one and all that shit guys who want to fuck you but still come off as gentlemen say.
I asked where I was and he said Mar and Lar's room, His parents' bedroom. It was a scene from so many movies. I had official seen every room in this house but two. Before I knew it, my saying I think we should stop turned into us getting naked. Like responsible people, the question of aids test came up but there was no way he was fucking me. One he was not my boyfriend and two we had no condom. So it was naked grinding and jerking off on his parent's bathroom floor. We got dressed to the sounds of people screaming, what you are doing, not in mar and Lair's room. Fire, we decided to tell everyone we just made out. I felt like a slut. The party went on and we stayed at opposite ends until it was time to go when he gave me a hug and said we still had to meet for drinks in the city.

It would appear that the guys I always want claim they don’t want to date and just fuck around which was a big change for Kevin considering what happened over the summer.
We got to Jason's and I got in my car and drove home. Got in bed and went to sleep knowing the next day would bring a hangover.

03 December 2008

Happy Friday

Friday I was home alone. My mother went to my step Dad's to get her car fixed and my sister had spent the night at my aunts. I got up and went to pick up my sister, buy her several phone calls and text made it clear that she was ready to leave. I promised I would drive her to the mall so she could pick up long-sleeved shirts. West Philly left us time wise equally between the best malls to do such shopping.

To KOP we went. I think josh was off as I walked passed and looked for him and no where to be seen. We went to all the stores she thought would have shirts she liked and I called VZW to see what had to be done to get my phone back one. One argument with my Cell provider and 4 stores and we were on our way back home.

The rest of the day was spent doing much of nothing online, that is until I got a call from Jason. He asked if I wanted to go with him to a Birthday party at Kevin's. it was our friend Jen's 21st and I had completely forgot that Kevin and I had talked about it. As far as Kevin knew, I had to work back in NYC and he was unaware that I moved home. So I agreed and got ready, mother gave her slight disapproval of me hanging out every night, gas wearer and tear on car and what not. Little did she know the only night I drove was the night before thanksgiving. So I met Zach at Jason's told him why i moved back home and we went to pick Jayson up from Olive garden.

I was summoned in to see all the people that were there I knew and jokes, hugs, and insults later we left for Kevin's house.

02 December 2008

OMG Thanksgiving

For the first time ever my mother needed hardly any help with preparing the house for guest. I had no hang over and only slept until about noon. I figured I would call Ramón tomorrow as I saw him this morning and today was a holiday.

I just spent the day being a big brother to the world's greatest younger sister. Joking and all the cool stuff siblings that are close as the two of us are do. We both have always hated the doorbell. It's this obnoxious old church bell clock-chiming thing. So Britt suggested putting a sign on the door-saying knock. So we meaning me did. The first had to be my grandmother and that was the end of that.
My mother had asked that I be in charge of activities so I got apples to apples and candy land. My family is even to boring for those. I never played apples to apples and didn't have a little fun. Thank god for my favorite cousins Tiffany and Lauren,. Lauren tried her hardest to keep up but she was at a disadvantage. She is only 8 and Tiffany the next youngest is 19.

The food was good and there was no big dinner is done or a prayer of thanks just a bunch of prissy boring black people digging in to dishes off food and sitting where ever to eat. I must admit I looked amazing in my checker outfit. And to the family's surprise my jacket matched.

My non stop crying baby cousin did just that, cry, and my adopted cousin continued to show why kids with add should just be eradicated at birth. Crystal the supper model for ghetto monthly was loud and obnoxious like always. And the rest leave me with material to boring to even mention them, except for uncle john who I am planning a house warming for.

My mother did all the cooking and had time to spend with the family she worked hard and would have been the life of the party had she not been cooking since 3am.
After my family left, I went over Jason's and played, blurt with all his family who were all mostly cousins and second cousins. I had so much I cannot honestly tell you who won. The wine was good and so was the company. I then went with Tia, Jason and Sam, to Sam's place and we watched to boondocks, two of the four of us was high. I thought I was going to get a contact but nothing. My damn toothache sent me home at about midnight. Some thanks giving been home for two days and yet to have gotten drunk.

R is for Ramón

I dropped Liz and Jason and Jason's house. On the way she puked thank god she remembered to open the door, and she attacked the decal of Whinny the Pooh on my windshield. She was to drunk so she was going to sleep it off before driving herself home.

I called Ramón to tell him I was on my way. He gave me directions but I was tired I past his house twice. He had moved back home after his father died. So I had never been to this House although it was closer.

I finally made it and he made fun of me for passing him and his dog. Dog, hmmm, I don’t date guys with dogs. I had tried once but we never made it to a date and all the other just did things with them that creped me out.

I was willing to look past it, come to think of it there were lots of things I was going to have to look past in order to date him. We talked and concluded I was to keep him awake. And before I knew it my glass of orange juice was on the TV and I was on my back. We were going at it pretty strong to the point I agreed to lose the clothing. And for the first time I felt and saw his penis completely uncovered and knew what all the fuss was about.

It was huge the kind guys like me normally work up to. Before we even started, making out we agreed not to have sex but I was so turned on that jerking each other off was not out the question. And a quick double hand job and clean up I was out and he was next to me fast asleep. I remember an alarm clock going off and I think I am responsible for it being turned off, but I won't tell him that.

Ramón popped up and yelled at me for not keeping him up. He always had this tone where I could not tell if he was joking or serious. Hje was supposed to go running and he had put on a little bit of weight so this run was important if we were to honestly give this a shot. He ran downstairs and I was behind him and to my surprise I found an older slightly frail woman standing in a night gown. The dog was ever so happy to see her. I had to quickly remember that Ramón was adopted and that this was our first time meeting. Thank god, I look decent when I wake up even after a night of clubbing and drinking. Ramón introduced me as "you remember my friend Victor." We never met before but we both played along.

Some way to start your Thanksgiving.

01 December 2008

The Pink Pub Crawl

Jason told me to get to his place at 8:00 so we would arrive at 8:45 as the crawl started at 9:00. I was 15 min late and he in true Jay Fashion was still not ready. We even had to wait on our friend Liz. Once she arrived and we hurried Jason some we went to pick up Tia and her friend.

Then we had to go pick up pot for two out of the five people going it set us back so far that we for went the first bar in the crawl.

The hood was alive and strong Tavern on Camac was the second stop on the crawl and the first for us. I had been once before and loved it but could never convince my friends to go instead of Woody's. as it was a pink pub crawl Tavern or TPC as it is called played every pink dance mix it possibly could.

Having to wait a half hour we made the best of it that we could, watching the drunk queen spin around the dance floor, our friend Tia dance with the mirror and I listened to Liz tell sort of funny stories, and laughed appropriately.

When the bar began to get crowded, we went to look for the guy with tickets so we could start drinking. no luck upstairs to get a drink I went down stairs and for the first time in my life I had to wait to get back into a place. My kamikaze was offal to much lime. I finally got back to the dance floor and found my friends the music was changing and it was approaching the hour where we move on. The next stop was Bump a place that has great significance it would seem every guy that I was in a serious relationship no matter how short has bought me a drink from this place and the time we have always sets the tone of the relationship.

I was not feeling the kamikaze at all. So I ordered another I always feel the second. Bump was bumping its only flaw was lack of a dance floor. The orange bar that normally glows bright was almost completely bock by all the body ordering drinks. The thing I always hated about bump was the bartenders attitudes. I guess because bump is the one place every gay guy has been to and promises to go again they just feel no need to be polite, or it could be because its normally a last stop before pure or home and everyone is pinching money when it comes to tips.

We found a table and did what everyone in bump dose, we caught up with each other while bumping into our friends. First it was Jeff, Ramon's roommate that I once had crush one. I was feeling loose and everyone noticed apparently. It was like no matter what I did tonight people kept staring. Their was one guy across the bar that Tia agreed was charming in appearance. I would have gone over if I were closer and not blocked by bags and cotes. I kept staring and he kept staring back. And when Jason made me where his hat I must have looked even better because everyone took a look. It always happens when you don’t care how you look and you are not putting yourself out there that the would assumes you are.

Soon Ramón showed up and we caught up. Ramon and I had tried to date but his reputation as some one who has really slept around, and the fact he continued to sleep with my best friend stopped us. After the last attempt to date failed once again and we decided to be friends he went after the guy I was clearly talking to for a month, I was done and hadn't talked to him since.

This was the first I saw of him since then and all those old feelings came back so strong that I forgave him for wasting my time and allowed him to buy me a drink. Well I almost forgave him, after he returned with the drinks he turned to talk to his friend and we jokingly egged a drunk and apparently bisexual Liz to drink his drink. She did with very little hesitation. To my surprise when he turned to find his drink empty and got upset I felt no remorse.

Ramón and I spent the time catching up and getting to know each other all over again, it had been quite some time since we last talked. Everyone else went to Woody's and we went to 12th air to grab another drink, Ramón thought Long islands were on special but it turned out it was Cosmos. It was while talking to him that I realized Mr. M was never supposed to be the person I made him out to be in my head. I began thinking if Ramón was supposed to be. I always had feelings for the guy and he apparently had them for me.

After making plans to go on a real date on the 3rd of December and moving to the other bar and ordering yet another drink I bumped into Jimmy Dupree. Picture a younger and much sexier Anthony Marantino I mean for the first time I saw and thought sexy instead of silly little fag. He was angry about something but would not tell me. We chatted a little introduced the guys we were with as just friends and began catching up a little. I also sang a little Karaoke.

The time came to leave and I walked Ramón to his car which was on the way to a very drunk Jason and Liz. I found Jason and the first thing out his mouth was, "Victor I'm done." For the first time that I ever hung out with Jason he was far more drunk than I.

We found Tia and Sam and I drove everyone home. But my night was not over I still had a private after party with MR. R.