So it would seem the closer that I get to the engagement party the worse things are getting between my mother and I. most recently I received a voice mail calling me a jerk for putting my sister in the middle of what she would deem a feud.
After listening to the voice mail I called my sister to see if she was behaving any differently because I was not talking to our mother. She told me that things were as they should be and nothing had changed. I then explained the voice mail and my sister told me if anyone was putting her in the middle it was my mother.
The next morning I get a text from my sister saying that my mother was up at my sister’s school. After a few texts back and forth my sister told me that my mother did not want her to come and visit me at all. I was quick to explain to my sister that I loved her and to call me when she got a chance.
For the past week it has been nothing but my mother. I was struggling with how to handle the situation. My in-laws gave me great input and just as I am digesting and tying to come to some solution, this happens.
After talking to Jay who has been dealing with a similar situation he gave me some good advice. No I just have to get the courage to do it.
