So like always when I go a month without posting a blog a lot has happened. I think the best way to bring you up to date is a little update on the Indigo Gang.
Jayson and I had a falling out over a misunderstanding. It lasted a month but things are as they should be or as close to it. In the short while that I and Jay were not talking he lost his job and found a place to live. Things are not the best right now but I am optimistic for him.
Phil has been studding his ass off and dating in his spare time. He has had quite a few potentials in the last month with no real sex but enjoying every moment of it.
In mid April I received a text from Lou telling me he was moving to South Carolina three days after the fact. He had a scare that his mom had cancer but that turned out to be a misunderstanding as well.
Britt is dealing with a breakup and I ended up bringing her up to new Brunswick to hang out with Mr. MeTo and our friends to take her mind off of things. It went well until a phone call from my mother early Sunday morning had the three of us driving back to Philadelphia to drop her off back home.
The Wedding of Brenda and Kevin is steadily underway so much so that I had to get all my stuff out her basement so she could have it redone as a wedding present.
My other friends such as Bri and Gena are all doing well and happy, nothing bad to report on that front.
As for me well were can I begin. To give the short yet detailed version I and MeTo went to the family house in upstate New York easter weekend with his brother and his brother's boyfriend it also ended up being the first moth-aversery that landed on a Saturday. Matzos ball soup, a chocolate cream pie, several trips to the supper Walmart, easter baskets and a UTI later our weekend was over and I was in the ER trying to figure out if it was in fact a UTI.
While in the ER I met Bonnie, who is she you may ask. Well shortly before going upstate for easter MeTo and his current roommate went to look at an apartment. To his surprise MeTo was impressed but figured the price would be better if there was one more person to share the cost of rent, me.
I had been thinking about moving in with Mr. MeTo and looked into a few places that were around the half way point. But this required moving to New Brunswick an hour commute to work each day. I said I would think about it and resolved in my head that when I saw the place I would know.
Needles to say I saw the place, had a good chat with bonnie and now come June, I will move to a place I thought I would never live, New Jersey. Thats the big news of the month.
We started telling everyone immediately and to my surprise all of our mutual friends were excited including his parents. We more recently told my friends and it was taken with a grain of salt.
A trip to NYC to hang out with someone I never thought I would see again proved entertaining and sickening. It was by far the hottest day yet this year and I got the worlds worse headache which caused me to vomit and come back home early to only spend the night throwing up.
Who did I see in NYC non other than Jal'za Wych and her new boy toy. It was almost like nothing happened but there are still a few things that need to be worked on.
I continue to adjust to the idea of being practically married. MeTo and I both got gym memberships to WOW and are seeing each other everyday and discussing our future. We share the cost of everything and there is no more I and you its all we. People say how cute we are together and say how great of a couple we are.
Its a blessing what I have, I know being in a relationship is not the end all be all, I know that you can lead a very happy and fulfilling life as a single person. Trust me I know how hard it is to do the relationship thing when your not ready or don't want to. I am happy with my choice and I know that my single life is gone and thats the choice I made and I am happy.
So now my focus in life is almost officially changed, nothing is set in stone until there is a ring on this finger though. My job now is to maintain my important friendships, focus on succeeding in my career including going back to school and being the best hubby I can be to my Mr. MeTo.
Vixc B
