So, MeTo called me and wanted to discuss our relationship, rather to tell me that he was coming down the next day so we could go out and talk about us. I was shocked to see that he was the one calling me. To be very honest I did not want to talk to him, especially after what happened earlier.
While I was on the trolley to go see my aunt, MeTo called me. I was shocked to see it was he and answered, he told me he wanted to talk. When I asked about what he was very vague and said, “Stuff.” I tried to get him to be more specific. He began talking about our relationship. I thought to myself, “I thought we both agreed, this week was about me.”
I could never understand why he could not just let me be, leave our relationship alone until I got back from dealing with me. When I got to my aunt, I told her about what was going on. She was very understanding much to my surprise and she was able to see things from both perspectives. She enforced what I was thinking about MeTo and, she helped me to see what I was feeling.
Her suggestion was to talk about everything with him and get on the same page. I must admit everyone I talk to dose not want the two of us to break up. I was considering calling it quits but she told me not to just yet and no matter how bad I make the situation seem everyone tells me to hang in there.
So tomorrow me to and I will have dinner to hash things out. I had wanted the entire week to be a me week. One where I could gain perspective on the situation, how I was feeling and what I wanted.
I did figure out that I am smarter when it comes to relationships than I thought and I do have a greater plane for my life than I had imagined. I realized all of this while talking to my aunt. She learned from me and me her despite the serious age difference. However, that goes to show you that you are never too old and never too young to teach and to learn.
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