Mister Big took me on two moor dates after the comedy club.
He picked me up from work one night and we went to have beers. Then he took me
out the 4th of July. The nigh he picked me up from work my mother
was in the hospital and I figured I would take a chance and spend some time
with Big.
The place was a dud but it was not his fault we sat down and
ordered and in true form I ordered what I could afford although he was paying,
French fries and beer. I ate a good portion of fries and had two beers. We
chatted and I told him about my interesting family and how it operated. He
seemed happy to get the little bit of information.
He then told me how his fish tacos were a letdown for 18
bucks he did however finish them. When he asked how my fries were I offered him
some and he practically finished them. I had intended to take them home, would
have made a great midnight snack but that pipe dream was gone, and he was definitely
paying now.
The fourth of July, I had a lot going on a cousin giving
birth, another in the hospital for seizures and my mother at home recovering
from pneumonia. I told big that I would have to wait until my mom was asleep
because I did not feel right leaving her home alone.
He came and picked me up and we decided to go to the same
place we met, Valanni. We ordered similar to before except in the middle of
eating I got a text that my G-d daughter was born. The night was going to be
about me.
I looked up from munching only to notice that “The Waiter”
was making his way over. Still ripped and fine as ever I gave him a hug and
introduced him to me date we quickly caught up and he was on his way to iCandy
I rolled the thought over in my head, “Would big enjoy iCandy?”
Big and I joked about music and our gap in ages and before I
knew David showed with two of his lesbian friends. Big looked puzzled and so I decided
to tell him the story of how I met Dan and David.
Food and a few drinks later we decided to call it a night.
Once home I realized it was too early to be back in the house and so a few text
later I was back out.
A few days later my mother was back in the hospital and I
got a text from big that I make no effort and it seems like I am not interested.
I wanted to respond, “The only thing that is interesting is your money.” But
instead I told him how I was the only taking care of my mother and that
combined with my work schedule makes it difficult to keep in touch with a man
like him.
Big is typically going to bed when I am on the first bus
home from work. He has already been working for several hours when I am getting
out of bed, and the only thing this man seemed to talk about how he is shopping
for car for his daughter or the fact that he can’t stay in his condo because
there is no AC.
A week later I got caught, he made a fake a4a profile and
messaged me. The guy was a hot muscled 24 year old. I knew I would have a
better chance having a family with a younger guy closer to my age than Big who
already had it and never bothered to ask if I wanted it. So I kept all my
options open there were no talks or exclusivity, we had not had sex, and we had
not talked about where we saw things going.
He was upset and told me that while I was a nice guy and did
not seem interested enough and that he did not appreciate me still being on
a4a, he had been through it before and so happy hunting. I failed to find a
reason to respond.
